I say we all need a day where we get together and tell eachother everything that is on our minds, good or bad.. all of us. OR we can just tell eachother on here..
I know you guys probably just rolled your eyes.. but it worked for me at my work recently so just hear me out. We decided to confront The
COW we all hate at our work and she
finally got her ass fired for all the stuff she's been saying about us behind our backs and all the fraud she's been pulling that had been costing us our paychecks. And you know what the feeling in the end of this 4 month long hell was? Relief, and peace of mind. You don't even realize how much stress you are actually under untill the cause of it is gone. which got me thinking.........
I think if someone has big enough balls to talk the talk about someone else then they should have the balls to say it to their face too. I think this works well in the work place-but even better in a friendship. After all is said and done things always end up the best for everyone. We may lose friends, but with all the trash we so-called-friends say about eachother, doesn't it mean we've already lost them anyway?
I know it sounds retarded to some, but the reasoning for this posting is for my own peace of mind. I don't know about u guys, but if my friends wanna hate me behind my back I'd like to hear it from their own mouth, so I can get over it and move on with my life without the negative bastard. And vice versa if they are happy for me, shit dude I wanna hear that too. To me that's what having someone u call a friend is all about.
You all know the kind of people I have had in my past. You have all had a good laugh at how shitty these people were, how screwed up they were, how insensitive and careless they were, how they gossiped to save themselves from looking like the idiot that they were and put the fire under someone elses ass. Passed the buck. Had noone rely on them, or care about their existance.. and became nothing but a memory that I look back upon and smile because I am so fucking relieved that I didn't turn out like them.
I don't need any more shitty friends, and if I have been one, I am sorry. Lets fix this bullshit before we all become what we hate in others.
If I didn't care about my friends I wouldn't waste my time on this post, I just believe in the phrase " when you have something to say, silence is a lie"
I've spoken. Your turn.
